Fertility struggles don’t just challenge the path to parenthood—they test identity, relationships, and emotional resilience. In this episode, Abbe Feder shares her journey through infertility, how it reshaped her relationship, and why women often lose themselves in the process. A raw, honest conversation about love under pressure, identity, and finding strength through uncertainty.
Abbe Federal joins in Heels with Keni Silva to share her journey through infertility, identity loss, and the impact fertility struggles have on relationships.
In this deeply honest episode of In Heels with Keni Silva, Abbe Feder shares her personal journey through infertility and how it led her to create InCircle Fertility—a platform designed to support individuals and couples through one of life’s most complex and emotional experiences.
Blending lived experience with her background in behavioral science and coaching, she reveals how the process of trying to conceive can shift relationships from connection to pressure—exposing hidden cracks and forcing difficult, often unspoken decisions. She speaks candidly about identity loss, the moment women become patients before partners, and the emotional weight of navigating hope, grief, and uncertainty.
Now a mother to miracle twins, she is helping redefine the conversation around fertility—bridging the gap between clinical care and emotional support, and reminding people they don’t have to navigate this journey alone.
This episode is a powerful exploration of love, resilience, and what it truly means to rebuild yourself when life doesn’t go according to plan.